Dialogue emerges in every new situation in a unique way that cannot be repeated in some other situation. The basic quality of dialogue is that it happens in the present moment. In therapeutic dialogues, it seems possible to adopt ways of being that can help people regain the authorship of their lives. There are many right ways to dialogue, but there also seem to be ways of conversation that are not so helpful for the client in need of help. Based on the experiences of Open Dialogue meetings and the studies about them, it is possible to find some guidelines for good practice. These guidelines are not a therapy manual, but simply offer more thoughts through which we can practice our dialogical skills to find our personal ways.