Culture and Coping with Disenfranchised Grief
摘要
Disenfranchised grief is grief denied and not publicly recognized. Disenfranchised grief occurs because “Each culture creates its own grieving rules, defining the ways an individual is expected to grieve” (Doka & Martin, Disenfranchised grief: New directions, challenges, and strategies for practice, 2002, p. 338). People who experience disenfranchised grief may be limited in obtaining social support, in expressing distress, or in coping with a loss. Cultural expectations are relative, however; a grief not recognized in one culture may be recognized in another. Also, a cultural environment is layered and not monolithic (Bronfenbrenner, The ecology of human development: Experiments by nature and design. Harvard University Press, 1979). Thus, a grief that is disenfranchised at one cultural level may be acknowledged at another. Historically, cultures undergo change. Therefore, a grief that is currently recognized could have been disenfranchised in the past. Also, humans are not entirely at the mercy of their environment; they could exercise agency or “niche-pick” their environment. To circumvent grief rules that disenfranchise, people could selectively interact with the aspects of their environment that recognize their grief.