When we wonder about the meaningfulness of our life, we wonder whether we live our life the way we ought to live it. We wonder whether the way we live it is the right way. The problem is that there might very well not be a right way, and even if there were, we may never be able to be sure that it is the right way. We long for a solid foundation for our life choices, which we hope to gain through a belief in God or objective values. But ultimately, it is our life, and we must decide how to live it, based on our own personal evaluations. Whatever the meaningfulness of a life consists in, it needs to make a positive difference to the way the one who lives it experiences the world because the only place that meaning can ever be found is in the way we experience the living of our lives.