Let q be a prime and let \(\lambda >1\) be an integer coprime to q such that \(\lambda \) is self-conjugate modulo \(\lambda q\) and \(\gcd (\lambda ,q-1)=1\) or 2. Suppose a \((\lambda q,q,\lambda q,\lambda )\) relative difference set D exists in an abelian group G. Then \(\lambda \) is a square and D admits a (q, q, q, 1) relative difference set as a sub-difference set. Moreover, \(q=3\) and the Sylow q-subgroup of G is isomorphic to \(C_3\times C_3\) . If p is an odd prime dividing \(\lambda \) , then \(p^{4b}||\lambda \) for some positive integer b.