This paper proposes generalized impulsive control systems where the time delay depends on the sequence of impulsive instants, and the interval between adjacent impulsive instants increases monotonically (either bounded or unbounded, i.e., sparse impulsive instants). For these two scenarios, sufficient Lyapunov-based conditions for the exponential stability of the systems are derived via impulsive control theory. The sufficient conditions reveal that the impulsive control strength \(\omega _k\) is quantitatively dependent on the length of the adjacent impulsive interval \(t_{k+1}-t_k\) , with its upper bound analytically determined as \(\omega _k\le e^{a^{\frac{1}{\lambda }\ln \theta }\cdot (t_{k+1}-t_k)}\) (where \(0<\lambda \le 1\) , \(0<\theta <1\) , and \(a>0\) denotes the non-average impulsive interval (NAII)). Specifically, when the impulsive instants follow a sparse distribution ( \(\lambda =\frac{1}{2}\) , \(t_k=k^2\) ), the designed impulsive strength \(\omega _k=0.12^{2k+1}\) stabilizes the system with delay ( \(\tau _k=4.6-\frac{1}{k}\) ), achieving an exponential convergence rate of \(k=0.0126\) (verified by Example 1). For systems with delay ( \(\tau _k=3(k-1)+1\) ) and sparse impulsive instants ( \(\lambda =\frac{1}{2}, t_k=2k^2\) ), the impulsive strength \(\omega _k=0.43^{4k+2}\) ensures global uniform exponential stability (GUES), with the convergence rate reaching \(k=0.0044\) (validated by Example 2). Key parameters analysis shows that the impact factor \(T_0=(t_1-t_0)a^{\frac{1}{\lambda }}\) (related to \(t_0\) and the first impulsive instant \(t_1\) ) influences the stability of large-delay systems, and \(\lambda <1\) requires time-varying impulsive strength (constant \(\omega \) leads to instability). Two comparative numerical examples confirm that the proposed method outperforms the traditional average impulsive interval (AII) method for sparse impulsive instants, extending previous results on isometric impulsive sequences and providing a quantitative dynamic control strategy for generalized impulsive instant sequences.